I WANT IT ALL

I want it all !!!!! 

I want the good life I want to be happy I want control over my finances I want control over my emotions , I want that fantastic Job that beautiful house that loving man the good friends ,admiration from all I want it all 

Yes I am greedy but I'm human who nor like better thing I want the goodies and I'm not going to lie about it I'm going to keep it real,

I want to go on holidays and dress fancy when the need arises and feel great while leaving a fulfilled life ! 

That's just what will make me happy. 

How am I going to get all these things I want well I was told by my father 12 years ago that I will have to work hard for it, and I have been doing just that but I haven't gotten it all yet and I'm not happy about that but that doesn't mean that I shouldn't continue working hard,

I'm human yes I have thought of the second wife approach but well I'm not used to being Inlove and having that bed empty all the time while he warms another bed, 

I have also taught about doing what other girls do but hey I'm a lover girl there has to be a chemistry before anything and I'm very picky above all I value myself too much to be someone's pawn ,

Quick money through illegal business nor be my destiny oh I can't shout my father will get up from his grave and kill me ahhhh noooo I can't it's so not me 

I still want it all and I'm going to get most of it if not all of it and iv decided to just keep working hard you see that thing try call opportunity I'm always prepared for it and I grab it when I can because I'm a go getter I know what I want.

I'm not going to sell my self short because I want to get there with my intergrity intact. 

It doesn't mean if I fall deeply Inlove with a rich guy I won't marry him,sure I will I just want it all as long as it's real and makes me happy. 

What do you want ? 

What are you doing about it ? 

How far have you gone ? 

Do you want the right things ? 

How many times do you do a reality check ? 

Am I wrong to want it all ? 

Have you ever felt this way ? 

This feeling called love

I embarked on a journey to Benin to spend the new year with my family,and it was worth every bit of it including the stress and all the questions been asked and corrections been dished out and taken in good faith because they want me to be a better person because they love me. 

The most comical but confusing part was that I met an old flame of mine,yeaaaah I'm capable of love every human being is, 

This meeting brought about old sweet memories,how I used to scale the fence to get into his bq because his dad didn't want girls sleeping over and I was a stubborn cat I just loved to cuddle and I loved the fact that we cooked together when I was in the kitchen cooking and he was at home he would cook with me and sometimes take over the kitchen he is a great cook and lover,

How he never wanted me to go home and that was always a problem ,

The scaling of fence part was what tripped me the most it had become official that people had to scale the fence so the back yard neighbors just helped us by setting blocks even when I'm about to scale they would greet me and gist with me, lol , before I scaled te fence I would whistle in our signature tune and he would answer if he was home and it was ok to scale , even the gateman had his own tune and he would answer if the coast was clear , 

Yeah the love was rugged and strong like that I called him my black king and he called me his 1st love ,

It was a rugged ruff and sweet love but we were crazy Inlove,

Even after years he still kept in touch and I always responded like a friend not his love because I had moved on not seen him in 8 years last time I saw him a was a mother now and u had matured far more than my age required so I didn't even bother to understand when he kept on calling me to ask how I was doing and how motherhood was, 

So he called this new year and I was bored so I said ok I will meet him up for a drink so we met and we gisted and recounted all the crazy things we had done together and all the sweet moments. 

Funny though but true I still have feelings for him I just realized when we sat to talk, and he kept on telling me why do you think iv kept in touch all these years,now he is more matured and he is in absolute control of his feelings so much so I can see him hiding them and In my head I like the old crazy jealous possessive him more ( u see wahala back then I wanted him to grow up now his grown I want the old fun part of him ) but he is still a friend all the same the only person that likes my kolo ! 

So you see this thing called love if it is allowed to mature it goes two ways it's either you fall more deeply in love or you fall out of love.

Our love was cut short by immature decisions and our respect for our parents opinions because both families knew themselves and kept on telling us that we  should take care of one another(like brothe and sister thingy) we sure did that and more lol as a sharp babe ! I can't see a good thing and not partake never said I was a saint ! Lol 

Sometimes it's best to just let love be if it will be it will be,my friend saw me today and said babes you are glowing you look lovely this Benin trip did you a whole lot of good and my reply was very honest and it made me feel good as the words came out I said "it's good to be Reminded how beautiful a woman I am how much I can be loved and respected how much I can be wanted by one man and mean all to him,it feels good babes to sit with a friend and have him remind you of who you are incase you just lost yourself in the hussle of life " 

When you expreince love make it work fight the odds of public opinion hold onto your feelings for each other because everyone knows good friends make the best lovers ! 

I hope I fall Inlove like this again, all over again because it's real and refreshing ! 

Have a lovely week ahead y'all ! 

#This ones for you My Black King thank you for reminding me of how good a lover I can be when I'm truly Inlove ! 

Happy new year

Happy new year guys

This year is an opportunity to start afresh to write a fresh beautiful chapter concerning everything that makes your life more meaningful,

Let go of the past we are here today and now let's keep moving and be happy ,

This year iv decided to be happy and live my life to the fullest 

I'm in Benin right now enjoying the simple pleasures of life good food extremely lovely sense of humor from the most real people you can ever meet. 

It's only a wise man that uses the mistakes from his past to acquire knowledge,

Every experience brings wisdom every decision in life requires wisdom 

It is my prayer this year that we all become better people in order to have a positive impact on our family and communities respectively 

God is love and light may his love and light abide in our hearts daily have a lovely blessed and purpose filled new year ! Amen 

A true Hero is gone

He changed the world he gave us hope,

He is a hero and he will never be forgotten ,

He brought smiles to mama Africa and caressed her beauty with his victory our victory , 

He fought for us, 

We love you papa 

Rest in peace 

You fought a good fight ! 

Rest in peace Nelson Mandela.

Please drop a line for my hero my kids know Obama I know Mandiba before I knew Obama he paved the way for a great Africa 

Please drop a line for the legend Mandela  

A letter to charley Brown

Okperanky Aziegbemwin

Never take someone like me as a fool....Charles osagie...popularly known as Charley Brown who did his son birthday on first of December 2013...heartless people like....This is what happened my people. ..it all began this way. .I was i performing at the birthday party in the city of torino Italy where he did the party. ..The money that was spread for me he took everything...which i agreed...unknowingly to me that he want ahand paying my dj three times of the money I usually pay him..when he new that club locked for one month. .The very first day I was about opening my club he took my dj and payed he three times ahand the money i normally pay he...just to being me down and the name of my club. infinity nite club..When i saw my dj in the hull i was so surprised to see him there. ..them i want to charly brown and started pleading with him for the release the dj to go to club and perform charly brown refused I want to the mic to announce to the people to help me plead with him. He still refuse.......After the party i called he to give me the money which we agreed on he still refused and brought out three hundred dollars for me to pay my people that work assist me in the stage...which he new some of them come from perugia and verona. ....i was so ashamed of myself which i now took them to my house to pay them with my money. Some of the people invited to party was about done in my house. In the party a man stands for him that pay the money to pay the people... they promise today when got there I meant charly brown with one of his numerous girl name stella .that came from France was with him and started insulting me for my good....charly brown pull his shirt in the street..started fighting me and call the police. ..This is De same girl i meant in a show in Spain and called me and ask if new charly brown three years ago and ask if i new Charles brown I said yes. ..she told the his dick is not working and his pussy sucker...I was surprised the some girl was with her today..The video will soon be out...to know the truth. ..... charly brown thanks..and all the people saved me for not letting he kill this evening

My italo akate jandon brothers won't kill me 

My country people nor be by force to write English this dude is better off doing a voice note ! 

What say you ? 

The best form of revenge

Many of us have been betrayed , humiliated , cursed out , you name it a whole lot of people have been there today I want to tell you the truth please read ! 

Yes we are all human we will hold on to hurt we will feel like beating some people till our hands feel sore and we have broken them into pieces, but hey remember the body heals but the heart it can bleed for a life time ! 

Here are some of my own ways of revenge, 

When a guy leaves me for a chic that he thinks is all that physically well I let him go because beauty ain't brains I upgrade to become a better me ! 

When my friends lie and do all the dem say dem say stuff I just cut them off one time you know why ,when they are not around you they don't know what is happening in your life,when you don't listen or hear about them ther opinion doesn't count ! 

When I get the stinkers due to office politics and all that , I never repeat I never let them see that it gets to me I smile I put on my best clothes to work and make sure I'm always 10 steps ahead that way they keep on trying to catch me and my behind is all they see because I am the kings daughter physically hot , spiritually on fire, mentally boiling and bursting with innovative resourceful ideas ! 

Drama drama drama !!! 

It's everywhere trust me , but iv learned to dance when the drum plays we all dance but when dancing are you smiling or frowning I smile I dance like it's my last dance and I shower them with love even though I don't mean it I try my best to be unpredictable for people fear what they can't understand ! 

Keep them hanging till thier feet are sore and then they fall to thier needs in submission to the fact that they can't win a battle that The Lord is fighting ! 

Who can battle with The Lord ? Nobody ! 

No matter how long the night is my waffi people say day must break ! 

My country people keep your head up never give up those that quit always never taste and savor the glory and sweetness of victory ! 

The best form of revenge is love ! Love God above all for he will grant you wisdom to overcome ! 

Those are my own solutions to issues I deal with from time to time  yours maybe different because our destinies are different ! 

Above all put God 1st in all ! 

GO AND DIE

Yeah I said it go and die those words came out of the mouth of a governor that was elected into power whether he rigged or not right now I could  care less but point is he told a fellow human being who said she was a widow and that he should have mercy on her to go and die !

question 1 please what kind of water did he drink that morning ?
they need to stop feeding him with that water it is not good for his medulla oblongata

question 2 those of you defending him why are you defending him?
 you are just inhuman don't worry the money they gave you in Ghana must go go soon finish shebi you will go for more again question is will there still be more to give ?

question 3 PDP why so cocky ? so una nor know say widows dey nijja since anyways una do well oh its high time you guys start giving back in one way or the other after all na we money

question 4 why did no one rise to her defense ? people stood and watched I thot w were meant to have an uprising soon obviously I was dreaming or it was in my past life or I was in another realm.

question 5 what next?

I used to love the guy called Governor Adams oshiomole I was sure he was going to deliver I spoke so nicely of him every where I went but now as I type I don't even ant to hear anything about him im very vexed very upset and most of all ashamed that I trusted him, well dem really talk say na only pikin wey dey inside belle na him dem dey vouch for

I think we should go back to army arrangement paddy paddy put am togeda army arrangement so that all our politicians can go and die abi after when there is nothing to steal hunger go worry them.
I know some people go vex say I talk say make them go die well if you can tell me that why cant I tell you same do unto others what you want them to do unto you.

if them again you don't understand why I am so bitter watch this video them imagine this if you are a woman imagine that was you or your mother or daughter or sister
if you are a man imagine that was your mother or wife or sister or daughter if you were alive you would be so bitter that even ribena undiluted would taste like chloroquine  in your mouth.

http://e-magin.com/adams-oshiomoles-terrible-utterances-to-a-poor-widow-you-are-a-widow-go-and-die/

LET US LEARN TO USE AND PICK OUR WORDS WISELY AT THIS RATE OSHIO WILL NOT BE REMEMBERED FONDLY IN EDO STATE AND BEYOND
THIS MOUTH CAN BE USED AS WEAPON OF MASS DESTURCTION OR A BALM OF GILEAD !

MY COUNTRY PEOPLE MAKE UNA DEY VOTE WISELY MAKE PERSON NOR GO TELL U GO AND DIE !

SO FAR SO GOOD

Hey guys im so sorry for locking up over the weekend ,I was taken over with the spirit of sleep most especially after entering one yeye go slow like that all the way home because aunty eminado was getting married between im yet to find out the meaning of eminado oh abeg who sabi am make e tell me!

My weekend went well I think I still danced and faced my glass doors got home very happy had a date with my girls via bbm chat(sandy baby that is ) while I was with date 1 the guy,as D mama decided to make herself un available she always likes to feel important like that, I forgive her all the same but I just don't like it all that diva sturvs and I don't blend well.

The best part of my weekend was the fact that I got to sleep chaiiii sleep is good oh! oh lawd I felt like a new baby each time I woke up and it helped me not eat much #diettinz, the best reward you can give your body is a well deserved rest.

then I went through linda ikejis blog and stellas blog and saw all the pics of them superstars and peeps plus the bleached and unbleached the skinny and the malnourished, the over hyped and the under-hyped,just the usual same old same old and then the vampires and cyborgs and ware-wolves were commenting as usual.

So they say TOOLZ exposes her breast too much when kim k does it y'all be drooling like desperate k9s,they said AGBANI is too skinny yet they love Naomi Campbell,they say TOKE MAKINWA they bleach so is nicki minaj biko is called rebranding hapuya like that, they said RITA DOMINIC looked sexy mbok those legs were confusing me why so coca cola and Fanta sis ? aunty KAREN we love u just the way u are because we know who you are every thing they want to talk let them talk at the end of the day you are Karen igho na so we know you to be ,LOLA OMOTAYO OKOYE they say you look old..... and then every body must age one day issue is are you aging gracefully or not babes you are on point left dem haters alone, WAJE my sisterly for life they couldn't say anything #warrinordeycarrylast shes a pure home breed, TOYIN LAWANI safest delivery oh that your pikin go jellow well well bewteen u and ur pooh boo fit wella , EMMA NYRAM try make you dey buy ashebi they say you are beginning to look like an alien say if na the money issue make dem they dash u the ashebi complimentary.

Then I watched the movie family runs its extremely over hyped abeg it was a waste of 500 naira im not happy wetin self only one man dey knack up and down like that haba na nollywood stop teaching us how to lie and fornicate, I didn't get any moral out of the movie apart from the fact that it is not good for man to dey born born outside which I already know I don't even want to talk about that movie if not I will be hyping it, mbok left matter !

What else happened this weekend oh and yes amidst all my plenty sleeping escapades I kept on dreaming about me getting married and I kept on hitting myself to wake up from the dream because to me it wasn't a needed dream at this time,u may ask why I was trying to get up im afraid of marriage it has scared and marred many I know, and im a joseph of a dreamer most of my dreams do come through no kidding then again I remembered that a dream may be as a result of your immediate environment#weekendweddingthings, so I decided to sleep and not wake up to remember the dream except it involved me counting money, YES money, because that's what is important to me right now for the 1st time ever I want to go on a proper holiday I want to start enjoying the fruits of my labor not marry and become a mama, marriage means domestication to me because im so giving ;so I don't want to even love because my love is too giving to be thrown back in my face#forcolouredgirls

Then Dmama and I rounded it up with some eye candy went to watch a football match at campus mini stadium Lagos island,
chevron versus eko support they call it corporate soccer it was really corporate because most of them guys were good looking and even after the whole match as I walked past some they were still smelling so nice and Dmama and I were just pointing out and picking out our boos there meanwhile we didn't even get to meet anyone like I said we went there for some eye candy just to feed our eyes and leave.

oya I have to stop here them spies at work be roaming around my system, that was how my weekend turned out I hope yours was better and I trust your week will be great because I prayed this morning that God should make everyone great so we can all make nijja great.

LOVE YA MY COUNTRY PEOPLE DO HAVE A LOVELY DAY AND WEEK AHEAD
ANYHING WEY YOUR ENEMY DEY PLAN YOU JUMP AM PASS !!!!!!!!!!!!

AS A SHARP BABE

TGIF BABY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Ehen I have three dates to keep up with today,

1st is with a guy he wants to take me out tonight to bubble but he cant dance so most times I find myself facing the glass door and dancing and admiring myself (I call that self love mode ) aint nothing wrong with that, but at the end of the day I manage to have fun with myself in the company of my date still in my own little world in my head, im sure you would be wondering why I hang out with this guy , well he is matured and he respects me and treats me like his sister. You know the types that make you talk like you are 40 when you are only just 30.

2nd date is with ma girls "Sandy baby" I call her esista(bengazi peeps would understand) shes my mentor on zumba things and she is mad a?! fun to be with when she laffs you just have to laff along with her then her dance moves na fire then her yabis omg mbok forgerrit, then of course my booski my babe from Atlanta-Ibadan "D mama" she's just a clown nothing misses her diva eyes, always seeing all the wrong things, when one eye lash is longer than the other, when a chic is sagging or when a babe is marketing and she getting it all wrong and making matters worse, then when she wants to spill it out she would look at you at that particular time when u are holding onto laughter and say woot and then you would have to laugh. The beauty of hanging out with my girls is that we always voltron our bills we don't take free drinks from strangers ,we don't go home with strangers, we don't share our details because we aint hunting, we are just out to have mad fun and go to bed with a smile on our faces knowing fully well we have teased and taunted the guys and spoilt market for some babes. This one I like best !


3rd date is with my tv ,my bed and my fresh sheets and my duvet ,I love watching movies since I started working for another mans company any chance I get to spend with my tv is very precious to me. I don't joke with it considering the fact that I pay for the full bouquet dstv every month and never really get to enjoy it well some might say why pay for the full thing hey the stations I like to watch are on the full thing so don't hassle me, so as I was saying I have a date with my tv and my bed because its been a while and my dstv subscription is expiring in two days, and I just want to chill its been a hectic week my brain has been doing some very plenty work.

Out of all this plenty dates I will honor 2 ,dates 1 and 2 and then date 3 will take place tomorrow because I need to go out and dance that's the only way I let go of stress cooking and dancing.

Any toaster or assistant boyfriend that tries to come in between these plans I have made is on a very long thing, im nobody's last minute babe or weekend lover.

That's how my Friday is going be so till when next I go on line TGIF BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DONT DRINK AND DRIVE !!!!!!!!!
IF HE OR SHE AINT YOURS DONT TAKE HIM OR HER HOME !!!
HAVE A LOVELY WEEKEND MY COUNTRY PEOPLE !!!!

English our borrowed but comfortable language

Once upon a time there was a country and in that country lived many families and in those families lived a common friend,all these friends that lived with different families all came from one family,confusing I know let me simplify it family A had a friend as a matter of they owned the friend his name was MR D though MR D had many nicknames but All the MR Ds all had the same father and the same mother MR And MRS E ! 

MR D was a member of every household and a friend of every member of every household, until something called MR T came and stripped MR D into different parts and made him perform so many functions but lost the essence of having him as a friend in every home,now the side effect of not having a dictionary (a hard copy ) at home is that every English word now has a funky spelling ,people who are even educated mix up thier tenses,there is a lot more but we will just stick to those two fore now.

The kids, younger generations have to rely  on their teachers who apparently are the only ones that keep a hard copy and a soft one handy in order to be able to impact knowledge into the families and generations of all the past and present friends and owners of all the different forms of MR D (dictionary) .

MR T ( technology ) is a nice guy but Mr and mrs E ( English ) would be more appreciated and relevant if every family still had a hard copy of thier son MR D.

Because the truth is that without electricity Mr T can't perform and use all the different parts of MR D to the fullest ,but when a hard copy of MR D is lying around it becomes a handy companion electricity or not one can always just flip the pages and learn something new.

Keep a dictionary at home or on your desk or some where handy always ,in a bid to be up to date lets not loose the true essence of it all ,some old norms make families bond and brings about a common tie. 

Just as Nigerians haven't given up our Football for American football lets not let give up everything and in the end have nothing.